Im seeing lots of hate on my dashboard. Tumblr has some of the best people in the world but then it also has some of the biggest douches ever. WTF - who the fuck got your knickers in a twist and why do you feel like you have to make yourself feel better at someone else’s expense. If you have an opinion - fine, you’re entitled to it but don’t you dare make someone feel shit just because they think differently to you. Hang you head in shame - you disgust me.
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Couldn’t have put it better myself! I really dont like anon hate - people need to think before they act like cunts.
I’ll always be inspired and have respect for those who speak out against hate FIRST. They do so knowing they might stand alone. THEY’RE the ones born to lead.
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There are no words to describe how ashamed I felt just watching this video. By the end I was GOBSMACKED!
High fucking five to those who spoke out! Quite annoyed that some people just stood there and let her say the shit she was saying!
That poor child of hers! I hope he doesn’t grow up like her!
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A Grandfather from the Cherokee Nation was talking with his grandson. “A fight is going on inside me,” he said to the boy. “It is a terrible fight between two wolves.” The young grandson listened intently. “One wolf is evil, unhappy, and ugly: He is anger, envy, war, greed, selfishness, sorrow, regret, guilt, resentment, inferiority/superiority, false pride, coarseness, and arrogance. He spreads lies, deceit, fear, hatred, blame, scarcity, poverty, and divisiveness.” “The other wolf is beautiful and good: He is friendly, joyful, loving, worthy, serene, humble, kind, benevolent, just, fair, empathetic, generous, honest, compassionate, grateful, brave, and inspiring resting wholeheartedly in deep vision beyond ordinary wisdom.” The grandson paused in deep reflection of what his grandfather had just said. Then he exclaimed; ”Oyee! (in recognition). Grandfather continued; ”This same fight is going on inside you, and inside all human beings as well.” The grandson paused in deep reflection and recognition of what his grandfather had just said. Then he finally cried out deeply; ”Oyee! Grandfather, which wolf will win this horrific war?” The elder Cherokee replied, ”The wolf that you feed. That wolf will surely win!”
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The problem with being more vocal is you experience the wrath of haters.
Opinions: I have opinions and I’m kind of naive I guess, I think because I accept that other people have different opinions to me that other people will accept mine. But I’m learning that its not like that. Its so hard to speak out and say what you’re thinking because as soon as you do, you have people trying to bring you down and make you feel like your view is wrong. What you have to understand is not everyone is going to agree with you. You will get haters. The trick is to stay strong and not change your opinion just because you’re scared people will dislike you. Don’t follow the crowd.
Bullying: Its hard to stand up and let people know you’re not going to stand for bullying because as soon as you stand up for what’s right you can have an armada against you. You could become the victim which is scary. Its easier to stay on the sidelines and watch or join in and be part of the crowd but how do you feel when you see someone being hurt and kicked to the ground and you’re just standing there letting it happen or joining in? Can you imagine if that was you? That person needs you to do what’s right not join in and make it worse. Just one horrible comment on an already bad day can drive someone to suicide. Trust me. I know. Don’t be that one person who says that one comment on that one day that makes a person self destruct.
I want to let you know its OK. I mean, I know its hard but I want you to know your opinion does matter and that you shouldn’t be afraid to speak out. Its not going to be easy, you will get hate but I want you to know you get respect aswell. People only see the bad things that can happen, try and see the good. You could save someones life.
30 DAY CHALLENGE - Day 6
Something that makes you sad.
Haters.
Why is there so much hate in this world? I don’t know…It just upsets me that people are so ignorant and hateful. There is no need for it. I don’t understand why people seem to think its ok to go out of there way to spread hate, if you do it can you just ask yourself why? I will say one thing though, people who keep to there beliefs despite hate are some of the strongest people in this world. Spreading hate is useless. Its a horrible vicious circle, if someone hates on you - just let it go. Don’t retaliate, it will just come straight back round on you.
“what goes around comes around”
Be the one that says:
“enough is enough”
you have to be the one who smiles back - not hates back.
My dash has suddenly been filled with hate aimed at one person.
Why are people hating on someone who is speaking there mind?
Why are people hating on someone who is brave enough to stick up for something they believe in?
Why are people hating on someone about something that wasn’t even about them?
but most of all…
WHY are people hating on someone just because everyone else is?
I think that’s what they call ‘following the crowd’
Its about time people let other people have an opinion.
HATE?
Spreading hate is useless. it’s a vicious circle, if someone is nasty you - I know its hard - but you have to let it go. If you retaliate its just going to come straight back at you “what goes around, comes around” You have to be the one that says: “enough is enough” Be the one that smiles back not hates back.
Have you ever heard of the quote “make them wonder why you’re still smiling”?
it’s a good quote. You should use it.
Anonymous asked: i cant help it but i just think people dont eat are fucking head cases who are just looking for attention, no offence or anything i know you're a screwed up headcase who used to not eat but thats just an opinion if people dont fucking eat htey need to sort of your fucking problems and stop destorying other peoples lives, think of your fucking family for gods sake.
Wow. That message has actually left me speechless. The word ‘ignorance’ comes to mind. Please sort out your grammer, a lot of that question didn’t even make sense. All I have to say to someone like you is the following:
This is a post I posted AGES ago but if you read it you might “fucking” learn something:
Anon says: “bunch of silly girls trying to be thin” ANON WHY DONT YOU TAKE A READ!!!
What anorexia meant means to me
I KNOW people are going to bang their heads on the table at ANOTHER EX ANOREXIA MOANING ANOREXIA POST but I dont care. Its called a blog. Its my blog. If you don’t like it, it takes 5 seconds to unfollow or you could read it and learn something new, maybe understand a little better about something a lot of people judge and toss aside as a “bunch of silly girls trying to be thin” because its so much more than that.
Anorexia means something different to different sufferers. Some do just want to be thin but its not ALWAYS just about being thin. For me…I would say it was about…45% wanting to be thin. I did it because it made me feel stronger. It made me feel good about myself, PROUD in fact. You know when people say to someone on a diet ”well done you just resisted that chocolate muffin, you should be proud of yourself” well at the end of the day an anorexic can pat themselves on the back and say “well done, today you resisted food, you beat the headachs, stomach pains and dizzyness, you should be proud of yourself” and if your someone who was never praised, never won and was never good at anything that is such an amazing feeling.
Its like your acheiving something. Its like your strong (which is kind of ironic as the stronger you feel on the inside the weaker your getting on the outside..thats a bit of a bummer)
It doesnt matter that your slowing killing yourself all that matters is that you keep that good feeling and you can’t let anyone take it away from you. For once you feel proud of yourself. Even though i’ve “recovered” (you never recover) when im feeling crap I always want that feeling back and ill see if I can go a whole day without eating - but I must note this VERY RARELY happens and i’m a UK size ten who literally eats everything in sight - as if im making up for lost time!!! But I know its still there, my best friend even took the scales out her bathroom when I had a shower last night.
It screws you up and its a mental disorder and it shouldn’t be mocked and it should be brushed a side as something that “silly little girls do”
BEFORE YOU JUDGE CAN YOU PLEASE JUST THINK!
